About
kathryn lee, LMHC, Ed.M, M.A
Welcome, I’m so glad you’re here. my name is Kathryn, and I’m a psychotherapist based in NYC.
Life can feel confusing, draining, and chaotic especially now. Whether this is your first time in therapy or not, everyone deserves a space to feel heard, seen, validated and understood. It is absolutely okay to not be okay. Your feelings are valid.
Therapy is a space where you can express your feelings and explore the areas of your life that have gone unspoken so that you can cultivate awareness and heal to cultivate life long changes and authentic connections with yourself and others. I believe that therapists are the experts of the process, and that clients are the experts of their own experience. I work with clients to manage their anxious thoughts and feelings, to understand and break patterns and tendencies that are not serving them, and to work through relationship issues. In therapy, you will gain awareness and clarity on experiences, past and present, make meaningful changes, and heal from harmful, distressing experiences. While I utilize a trauma-informed, relational, and integrative approach, ultimately therapy will be tailored to your unique situation, needs and wants.
As a therapist, my style is to be collaborative, exploratory, empowering and practical. Building trust and connection is my utmost concern; I aim to create a safe, affirming and nonjudgmental environment, so that you can be unafraid to express any areas of you that have been tucked away. When appropriate I will nudge you to challenge your thoughts with gentle curiosity in the hopes of gaining insight, providing a different perspective, increasing awareness, and ultimately considering a different, healthier way of responding. With gentle curiosity and compassion, we will learn what it is that you need.
Throughout my career, I have worked with adolescents, young adults, LGBTQIA+ individuals, BIPOC, and the everyday New Yorker, with experience working in various settings throughout New York City, including hospitals and child welfare organizations. I currently work with individuals with various mental health concerns and diagnoses including depression, anxiety, trauma (racial, spiritual, intergenerational, childhood, interpersonal and sexual trauma), abuse, relationship issues (including family of origin issues), imposter syndrome, burnout, and perfectionism. In addition, I work with individuals around issues of boundaries, stress, low self esteem, and feelings of guilt, shame, anger, doubt, and loneliness. As a Korean American woman, I am deeply passionate about working with folx, surrounding themes of identity, perfectionism, empowerment and racial and generational trauma.
Research has shown that finding the right therapist for you is one of the most important factors for your growth and healing. If you're interested in working with me reach out for a free 15 minute consultation call to get a glimpse of what therapy with me may feel like. I'd love to hear of your reasons for seeking therapy at this time, goals for therapy, and answer any questions you may have about me or therapy in general. I’m excited to learn more about you, your story, and work with you on this journey!
Areas of Expertise: Depression, Anxiety, Trauma/CPTSD (Racial, Spiritual, Intergenerational, Sexual, Childhood), Life Transitions, Relationship Issues, Feelings of Loneliness and Anger, Imposter Syndrome, AAPI Mental Health
I have lived experience in working through family of origin relationships, healing trauma (generational, religious, relational, racial), deconstructing and reconstructing my faith, my identity as a Korean American woman, in addition to my own struggles with anxiety and depression.
MY STORY
As the eldest daughter of a religious Korean American family in the New York area, I always felt boxed in by what I “should” be doing and who I “should” be. I did what was expected of me; while everything seemed to be “fine” on the surface, my facade slowly began to crack. Years of striving and of burnout led me to develop a string of health concerns, GI issues including IBS, chronic pain, insomnia, food sensitivities as a teenager and a young adult. Over these years, I became increasingly frustrated, helpless, and depressed by the lack of answers and support from the medical world and my own personal network. I felt extremely alone and stuck in a vicious cycle. Although I had struggled with my mental health for many years, it was my physical health that ultimately forced me to confront my own mental health.
When I finally gave myself permission to truly heal I began to see how my experiences impacted my thought patterns, behaviors, tendencies, the people and even careers I gravitated towards. I began to acknowledge that I needed help and support, that what I was doing was not sustainable. Therapy became an integral part of my care. In this process, the more I paid attention to the root of my pain, the more I discovered my most authentic self. I found the part of me that was always there but was never given permission to be; I rediscovered and reconnected with my desire to live fully, to be in community, and to empower others. When it came time for me to consider my career again I knew what I wanted to do.
Both my clinical/professional experience and my lived experiences inform my work. My own negative experiences in the medical field, motivate me to create a safe and nonjudgmental environment my clients. I strive to meet my clients where they are at no matter what that looks like, to walk alongside them in this process, and to give them the opportunity to heal and to live a life of health and abundance.
approach
modern, Compassionate, trauma informed, & culturally affirming care
I am first and foremost an individual and believe in adopting a non-pathological approach; this looks like practicing compassionate curiosity and sitting in the grey, the nuances and complexities that come with our unique and specific cultural, racial, religious and personal background in addition to other identities, environments, and lived experiences. In sessions, I utilize evidence based techniques, such as EMDR, but always work relationally and holistically with a trauma informed and attachment based lens. Therapy will be tailored to your unique situation and needs.
I am committed in meeting you where you’re at. Everyone deserves a space to feel heard, seen, validated and understood. I would be honored to work with you and walk alongside you in your journey.
Areas of Expertise: Depression, Anxiety, Trauma/CPTSD (Racial, Spiritual, Intergenerational, Sexual, Childhood), Life Transitions, Relationship Issues, Feelings of Loneliness and Anger, Imposter Syndrome, AAPI Mental Health
I have lived experience in working through family of origin relationships, healing trauma (generational, religious, relational, racial), deconstructing and reconstructing my faith, my identity as a Korean American woman, in addition to my own struggles with anxiety and depression.
professional & Clinical experience
Licensed in the State of NY: 01290
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Ed.M (Masters in Education), Mental Health Counseling, Columbia University
M.A (Master of Arts), Psychological Counseling, Columbia University
Clinical Training at Mt. Sinai West
Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist
B.A, Political Science, Boston College
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Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
EMDR - Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
Integrative
IFS - Internal Family Systems
Interpersonal
Motivational Interviewing
Narrative Therapy
Person-Centered
Positive Psychology
Psychodynamic
Relational
Trauma Focused
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Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Codependency
Family of Origin Issues/Conflict
Life Transitions
Racial Identity
Self Esteem
Abuse & Trauma
Burnout & Stress
Addiction/Addictive Tendencies
beyond the therapy room
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IDONTMIND: Ask a Therapist Series Contributor
Asian Not Asian Podcast Feature sponsored by Saks Off Fifth & Asian Mental Health Collective for AANHPI Month
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Camille Styles: “Does Instagram Posting Give You Anxiety? A Therapist on How to Work Through It—and When to Call It Quits.
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Soar Over Hate Care Fair 2022, 2023 Healing Circle Facilitator
Soar Over Hate, Heal over Hate Series 2023
NYU Stern SWIB Mental Health Panelist 2023
Saks Off Fifth in collaboration with Asian Mental Health Collective and Asian Not Asian Podcast
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Psychotic symptoms in mass shootings v. mass murders not involving firearms: findings from the Columbia mass murder database, Psychological Medicine
An analysis of motivating factors in 1,725 worldwide cases of mass murder between 1900-2019, The Journal of Forensic Psychiatry & Psychology